A Widow’s Guide to Finding Happiness This Fall
With summer drawing to a close and the prospect of winter edging into the frame, it’s easy to find yourself hitting a low spot. However, in between summer and winter comes The Fall.
As the autumn can bring with it feelings of nostalgia, and the foreboding of winter, it is also a time to enjoy the bounty of the most fruitful time of the year. With a veritable feast of good things to eat, and a dazzling display of nature at its’ very best, there is much to enjoy before the winter sets in.
October can still bring sunny and warm days and it’s hard to imagine the chilly evenings and long cold nights, which could soon be upon us. Use this time to prepare for any harsh winter elements and look forward to enjoying the next few weeks while there is still much to offer.
If you’re feeling lonely and missing your late partner this could be a good time to ask yourself if you’re ready to think about meeting someone new.
Should you feel dating again would be preferable to winter nights home alone, consider your options and think about what you can do to find that certain someone.
If you have friend who is also widowed and with whom you have only ever shared a platonic friendship, perhaps they would be pleased if you invited them to share a meal. You could keep it fairly loose and see what happens.
If all goes well you could perhaps arrange a Thanksgiving dinner together. Planning supper could be part of the event with each of you choosing your favourite foods. There is nothing quite like sweet potato casserole, or roast turkey followed by pumpkin pie, and at this time of year it should be enjoyed with family and friends, new or otherwise.
Going for walks and enjoying the transient changes to the foliage, catching the scent of pine nuts and vine fruits, and kicking up the fallen leaves, are all elements that contribute to the joys of this wonderful season. The autumnal sound of a forest is nature’s own orchestra and the best place to spend an afternoon, especially if you are with someone you care about.
If making new friends seems an illusive concept, especially if you have enjoyed many happy years with your partner, don’t give up. Holding on to the idea that you would like to meet someone new, the greater the chance it will happen. Self-belief and keeping an open mind are very important!
If you’re comfortable being single at this time, that is also fine. Lasting memories of a happy relationship with your partner are a valuable commodity and for some, all that is needed to keep you content.
However you’re feeling, make the most of the fall and treasure all that this rich and colourful season has to offer.